Tuesday, 28 July 2015

Thinking mind..




That day when  I was going to home by office bus,heavy rain was pouring outside.My office is at the outskirt of the city,you can glimpse the different lifestyles within seconds. The place where office bus got stuck in traffic jam,I saw three little kids... one boy and two girls.. no money to guess..obviously they were poor..otherwise how could I have noticed them.
           First time my reaction to them was..you don't need money to be hygienic,even after ten minutes bus was still there with Three kids outside but this time different me inside..Both the girls were fighting with each other with their little hands splashing dirty rain water on each others faces and on other side the boy was taking rain on his smiling face forgetting about the fighting girls..soon after girls also joined him..That trio seems to be world's happiest people. There was something a missed. When both the girls took the boy's hand ..guiding him through traffic, that time I realized that that boy was blind ..They went to their destination ..forgetting about their life dependent fight..enjoying the little packet of snack  for which girls were fighting. 
              What girl can see through eyes, boy knew how to enjoy it. I thought I'm quite opposite of that boy,Cursing the traffic and rain..thinking about ongoing Wimbledon match that I couldn't watch.I knew I would be late home.I could have read a book which I had been trying to finish,or could have done something else instead of easy way out..way of complaining..
              Soon after traffic got cleared and suddenly my mood got changed. Then my always thinking mind thought..all-clear traffic to me what rain was to that boy.Everybody reacts to the situation differently somebody sees through their open eyes with their own interpretation somebody drew their own interpretation having conversation within their mind.What matters is that we are breathing with thinking mind. Let your reaction be impulsive but be reactive.Don't read too much into situation.Situation are here to change.Our reaction to it will change the situation.Be appreciative of the reaction that our thinking mind possessed.If you are cursing the rain seating inside then you aught to enjoy it when you're outside. Otherwise no right to curse the rain.If you don't accept the situation try to argue with the situation ,if you don't want to argue then change your reaction to it.If you are criticizing the situation then be appreciative when things gets changed.Don't criticize,if you don't know the exact reason of your reaction to criticism..React to the flow of life.. Be reactive be thinking..that's what  we are..
             When I look back to that incident now..Girls were fighting because that was their reaction to the situation..but soon after they also forgot the fight and that was the important small thing in larger scheme of their life..They started reacting differently .Don't get stuck in same mood..Otherwise we would always have mankind's favorite expression..."I am getting bored.!!!.". Our mind always reacts to the situations but our brain is thinking force behind our reaction. May you blessed with Thinking mind...




4 comments:

  1. Nice Story with great Thoughts Poonam. It can change someones Thinking Power.

    “The secret of getting ahead is getting started”

    -Sid

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  2. aah Nice Cool One...You should keep writing...Thank God that day it rained heavily and you were stuck in traffic and you felt all these feelings :) :)...Yes we should keep Thinking until we get a positive conclusion.

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    1. Thanks Saroj for reading..my amateur writing..:)

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